Many of us struggle with our relationships with family members, whether due to abuse, neglect, jealousy, or other factors. — I was surfing on Twitter recently and came across a tweet about how we should normalize not loving our toxic family members. And I realized that this is something we don’t talk about enough. The people who are supposed to love us unconditionally can also be toxic It’s okay not to love your family members. It’s more than OK — it’s necessary.